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Living Apart Together
In 2020, somewhere in the middle of the pandemic, I was dating someone who made her position clear early: she had no interest in ever sharing a home.
Jun 24
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David Eedle
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The Singles Tax
On grey divorce, the singles tax, and why I keep thinking about a block of land with some tiny homes on it.
Jun 22
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David Eedle
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My Love of Words
A huge joy in the last few years has been rediscovering writing for enjoyment rather than work.
Jun 17
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David Eedle
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No One to Call
What a road trip, a Brat Pack star, and thirty years of data have to say about the friendships we let fade.
Jun 15
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David Eedle
The Friendship Pyramid Is a Map, Not a Mandate
A useful framework for understanding loneliness - as long as you don't let it measure you.
Jun 11
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David Eedle
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Why Groups Feel Hard (Even When You Like the People)
Group dynamics are much harder to navigate than one-on-one interactions.
Jun 8
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David Eedle
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The Anxiety We Call Love
The urge to fix things that aren't yours to fix feels a lot like love. It rarely is.
Jun 3
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David Eedle
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We are not mind readers
The people in your life don't have a crystal ball.
Jun 1
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David Eedle
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May 2026
The loneliness of the clock
Changing how we view time might be the most effective way to reconnect with each other and reduce the modern ache of loneliness.
May 27
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David Eedle
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Are you okay with not being okay for a moment?
Why "Are we okay?" is sometimes the wrong question to ask, and who it's actually for.
May 25
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David Eedle
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The decision is not the problem
We often think we are stuck because a choice is difficult. Usually, we are just trying to outrun the discomfort of not knowing what happens next.
May 20
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David Eedle
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Toughness is inside you not externalised through your car
Real toughness doesn't need a name badge. It doesn't need to sit 40 inches high to feel significant.
May 18
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David Eedle
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